Go Ahead And Try

I am writing tonight from the beautiful Tampa Bay area.

Does the past ever haunt you? Do you ever wish you could go back and do something differently? Every baseball season I am haunted by something that I did, or actually didn’t do when I was 12. Many springs ago, I was a little league baseball player. It was my first year of organized baseball, while my peers had been playing for years. Never having played fastball before, those 11 and 12 year old pitchers threw fastballs by me so fast, that to me, I might as well have been facing Nolan Ryan! While I did manage to get on base a few times by walking, my career hit total equals 1.

Funny thing is, while my parents came to most all my games, they missed the one game where I got a hit. When I hit that ball into right field, my teammates jumped off the bench and started celebrating like we had won the World Series. The other team was looking over at them, trying to figure out what the big deal was. I told the first baseman it was my first hit. Turns out only hit.

Eventually I made it to third base, and what happens next, or didn’t happen is what has haunted me ever since. While I was on third base, the batter squared to bunt. The infield came way in towards home, allowing me to take a gigantic lead off of third base. The pitch landed in the catcher’s mitt. The catcher slowly and carelessly tossed the ball back to the pitcher. That is when I thought, hey, I have such a huge lead off of third base already, and the catcher is throwing the ball back to the pitcher so slowly that if I break for home as soon as the catcher releases the ball, I can steal home before the pitcher throws it back! I waited my chance. Sure enough the next pitch lands in the catcher’s mitt and the catcher repeats his same slow, careless toss back to the pitcher. However I did not break for home. Instead I thought, wait a minute. The coach is not telling me to run, and if I do get out I will look like an idiot in front of everyone. So I never tried to steal home plate. I was afraid to fail, so I never tried. Now, whenever I see Carl Crawford or B.J. Upton steal home plate, I think to myself, I could have done that too if I had just tried. Looking back now, I am sure I could have made it easily. Only my fear of failure kept me back.

I learned a lesson from standing on third base on that spring afternoon so long ago. Go ahead and try! Even if you don’t make it at least you will know, instead of wondering about it for the rest of your life like I have. Many people are afraid to knock on a door to tell somebody about Jesus. When I was 15 years old, I learned my lesson from when I was 12, and went door to door in my neighborhood, asking people if they wanted to study the Bible. Many said “no.” At least now I knew, instead of wondering if they did for the rest of my life. One family said “yes” and later accepted my invitation to come with my family to church! Many people tell me they are afraid to give a Bible study to a friend, because they may not be able to answer a question. I tell them, just do what I do. Say, “I don’t know.” The people won’t kill you for not knowing, and you can research it later, and come back with the answer.

A story infinitely sadder than my baseball story, happened while I was a Bible worker in West Texas. An elderly married couple in my church told me another husband and wife, that they had been friends with for many decades, had both died. They sadly told me they had never tried to share Jesus with them, because they were afraid they would lose their friendship if they saw how “religious” they were!  They were more afraid of losing a friend in this life, than they were of losing them eternally.

Friend, don’t be afraid of sharing Jesus. Like all things, you will meet with failure but also much success.  Jesus tells us in Matthew 24:14, that the gospel will be preached in all the world before He returns. Every time we invite someone to Jesus, regardless if they accept or reject the invitation, it is still one invitation, one decision closer to Jesus returning.  Let’s remember too, that if someone rejects us it is okay. We are an opportunity, but not their only opportunity. Go ahead and try. That is better than spending the rest of your life wondering what might have been. When Michael Jordan, a famous basketball player tried to play baseball with the Chicago White Sox, the world laughed at him. He did not make it, but his words have always stayed with me. “I am not afraid of failing. I am afraid of not trying.” If that is true in sports, it is infinitely more true in evangelism! Don’t let the past haunt you. Go ahead and try!

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  1. Amen, Amen and Amen!! The more you shy away from trying to do something, the easier it gets. NOT a good place to be! Sometimes, however, just living the way you know is right is enough to evoke questions from people. My mother has been a nurse for 46 years and when we lived in another city in Florida, the hospital staff she worked with would ALWAYS be drawn to her when they had a problem. She NEVER said a WORD about what my father does (preacher) or that she went to church on Sabbath, but through her loving way with the patients and her ability to talk to and laugh with her co-workers, they KNEW they could trust her. Over the years, she would decline to eat things with meat or pork in them as and my father are vegetarians and of course, as Seventh-day Adventists, we do not eat pork. The nurses noticed this and asked her why she didn’t and she simply told them because of her religious beliefs. From that point on, they ALWAYS made sure “Sharon has something to eat” when they had their meal parties at work or went out somewhere for their Christmas party or whatever. My mother NEVER gave a Bible study, but simply by living and believing the way she does, influenced MANY lives to strive to be better people.


  2. It always depends on what one is afraid of.But it is worthwhile to always try to do those things which are noble in life not only for me but for everybody. I was born in a Muslim home and grew up as a Muslim until I was twenty years old when I decided to become a Christian. It was not easy to become a Christian. Since I became a Christian, I have been able to invite many Muslim friends to our church and many of them have accepted Christ. We should ALWAYS try to do those things which give glory to God. As a pastor and professor, I taught Islam in the universities and theological seminaries and by so doing, we created a sound base for a dialogue between Muslims and Christians in our communities in the country, that is, Tanzania.


  3. So many good lessons in this post such as:” Let’s remember too, that if someone rejects us it is okay. We are an opportunity, but not their only opportunity. Go ahead and try. That is better than spending the rest of your life wondering what might have been.” We may have been taught in our church that someone can lose their salvation if we don’t “witness” to them. They still have choice and may chose against what we share. Some people are more extravert than others and maybe the “witness” is a visit to someone’s home, or inviting someone to have a meal with your family, or to go together for a walk. We don’t know where such loving-kindness will lead. God gives every person many chances to learn of Him. And as long as the person doesn’t turn their back on God, they will be drawn to Him.
    Thanks again for another inspiring post.


  4. The possibility that someone might look at me on Judgement Day and ask me why I never told them what I knew constrains me to offer to everyone what I know, and that’s how I offer it. I tell them, “You know what? I believe the scriptures have an important message that I need to share with you. That message has changed my life, and if all the prophecies come true, I don’t want you looking at me and accusing me of not loving you enough to tell you what I know. This is me offering you what I know . . .”


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